How to work on relationship problems

A relationship won’t last unless their is a strong and lasting friendship. A relationship can’t last without it. Without friendship as a base, respect, love, trust, and a rewarding sexual relationship are impossible. When the relationship is built on friendship, it can last long enough to grow into love. And it’s friendship that lasts.

Every relationship has its ups and downs. In other words, no relationship is perfect. You can’t blame yourself everytime you get in a fight. Just step away from all the things that make you all fight. A miss communatition can lead to fall outs. Try to look on the postive side of things.

Set yourself up for activities as time becomes available for them. It is not necessary to spend money all the time. Remember the best time is the time the two of you exchange special feelings. You need to inspire him/her to look forward to time with you as well as those times he can hang out with friends. The first priority for both of you should be each other. Others are secondary. Whatever help you build your relationship in the beginning should be planned to keep things going well.

Great communication – must be able to be comfortable telling each other likes and dislikes, angers, frustrations, questions.Communication and trust is a big part in any relationship. Try not to think about the past, just look forward to the future. If you stay in the past and worry things will be the same they will be. All relationships have ups and downs, but if you work on it you will make. Keep the fire in the relationship by trying to go out once a month and be by yourselves. If you truly love one another it will work out.

Support – self-explanatory; must be there for each other no matter how daunting the struggles.
Trust – that both people will be able to do what they promised to do, and won’t do what they shouldn’t…which leades me to…
Forgiveness – we’re all still human. If two people really love each other, they’ll have to understand each others’ flaws and work through them, not just boil in anger, keep things inside, or threaten to break up at every sign of mistreatment.
Humility – Be able to admit when you have a flaw. Being able to do things tat you might think is stupid, but that means a lot to your other.

Find a common interest and start doing it together! If you nag he’s just going to want to go with his friends more. No body likes to have someone being needy and nagging, it pushes them away. You both are tired after work? Get some exercise, golf together, plan tennis together, take a salsa class together, anything to get your blood moving and doing it as a couple. Exercise will energize you and whatever you choose will be fun because you are together. Maybe make a time to walk the dogs once a week, you can catch up. You’ll be outside in the fresh air moving, energizing.

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